According to psychology research, the pursuit of happiness has actually made us unhappier. In this inspiring talk, Shari Alyse explores how our focus on 'being happy' has disconnected us from ourselves, and shares a roadmap on how to find your way back to yourself and your joy. Shari Alyse, “America’s Joy Magnet”, is an Inspirational Speaker, Best Selling Author and Joy Consultant. Shari’s deep commitment to others is motivated by her own journey through childhood sexual abuse and other childhood traumas. At 7, Shari found herself having to use her voice on a witness stand to testify against the man who had abused her. After years of trying to outrun her pain, she chose to courageously face it and her healing journey began. Shari now uses her voice to speak around the world on finding your joy through self-acceptance, self-compassion and positive mindset. Shari has been featured in numerous media outlets and has produced and hosted multiple online TV and radio shows. She has reached millions with her inspirational videos, speaking, coaching and writings. Her book, Love Yourself Happy, quickly became a #1 New Release and International Best Seller. Shari believes that in the radical acceptance of ourselves, we truly can lead a joy-filled life. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx